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Experience | Specialties | Contact | Interview and Negotiation | Requirements | Tributes | Limits | Fetish Wear Wardrobe Ms. Elorin is a professional dominatrix located in San Antonio, Texas. DISCLAIMER: Professional domination is NOT prostitution. Ms. Elorin is in no way a whore, prostitute, or escort. At no time will she be removing her clothing or participating in sex with any paying client. Ms. Elorin does not perform strip teases, blow jobs, or hand jobs. There will be no fluid exchange involved in any session. Ms. Elorin uses a private dungeon in the DeZavala-I-10 area of San Antonio. Experience: I have been involved in BDSM and the BDSM lifestyle since the fall of 1997. In that time I explored a number of roles before coming to accept my dominant nature. I identify as a dominant woman, a domme, a domina. I have been a professional telephone dominatrix since January of 2000, going full time in June 2002. I have been active in the BDSM community in San Antonio and Central Texas since November 2001. Since becoming active in the community I have enjoyed regular play partners, one time play encounters with acquaintances at fetish and play parties, and committed, involved relationships. I have attended many educational forums, learning various techniques and styles of play. I've also started and attended many, many discussions on the motivations behind, benefits from, pleasure derived from, and psychological dynamics of BDSM - D/s relationships in particular. I have been mentored by a few fabulous Dom/mes, and I describe my experience level as intermediate/advanced, depending on the technique in question. Of course, there are some activities I have not pursued out of lack of interest, and others out of lack of opportunity, in which I consider myself a beginner. I made the decision in 2003 to pursue professional domination, and put some of the groundwork in place to begin seeing clients. I began actively pursuing domination as a profession in early 2004. Specialties: My interests vary widely and I like to play intensely. Some of my specialties are CBT, nipple torture, spanking, caning, face slapping, spitting, and hair pulling. I love temperature play - both icy and hot, working with refrigerated insertables, chains, and metal paddles, as well as fire cupping, fire wands, and devil's fire. I have done "play" piercing and needle play and love it (I do not insert jewelry, and no permanent piercings). Violet wands make for all kinds of delicious torture - I have a modern manufactured wand with a wide variety of attachments. I enjoy sissification and cross dressing, strapon worship, foot worship, heel and boot worship. I find great delight in both simple and complicated rope bondage, mummification of all kinds (rope, blankets, cellophane, duct tape), tickle torture, collar and lead training, position training, verbal and gesture training to my specifications. I love golden showers, begging, mild verbal humiliation, and public humiliation. I actually prefer to play at the extremities of emotion. Though this is not required, the most honest, soul baring results and responses are found in those intense forms of play. Sensation play is a chance for me to be unpredictable and sadistic, rapidly changing the sensations you experience from extreme to constrasting extreme. This list is NOT complete. If you do not see your interest here, please inquire at mselorin@yahoo.com and I will let you know if I have sufficient experience to be willing to book a session for your particular fetish or interest. Contact: To schedule a session, send an e-mail to mselorin@yahoo.com with your REAL first name, age, location, marital status, experience as a submissive, and interests in play. Novices and complete initiates are welcome - I enjoy working with those still exploring and learning their place and interests. Please let me know what range of dates we have to work with. I am currently only scheduling sessions in the evenings M-F and on the weekends. I should be informed of any health issues that might affect play, as well as any known play triggers. You should get a response within 24 hours acknowledging your e-mail, and within at least 48 hours with a tentative time and date for our initial interview. Read below about interview and negotiation sessions. If your time is limited, or you will be unable to make two separate appointments, please indicate this in your e-mail and include a telephone number to contact you. I will consider having a session on the same day as your initial interview after telephone contact. I do not accept same day appointments. Returning clients do not need to schedule multiple negotiation sessions, though they may request an additional interview at any point. Initial Interview and Negotiation Session: Before scheduling a session for play, I require a preliminary interview and negotiation session where we meet face to face. At this session, play interests will be discussed as well as tributes. The purpose of this session is both to get a feel for a potential client as well as to screen out those who are wasting my time with no intention of booking a full session. Interview and negotiation generally lasts an hour (sometimes more, sometimes less). I attend all preliminary interviews with an escort. Interview and negotiation sessions are held in a public venue, such as a restaurant, book store, or coffee shop, and are not the time for a potential client to try to assume the role of "submissive." I will not arrive at an interview in fetish wear. This is when limits and interests should be laid out, my safeword system is discussed , and your previous experiences should be detailed to determine your level of experience in play. The interview is a chance for you to decide if you will be compatible with me, and for me to learn about your preferences. This is also part of the screening process for my clients. I will decide at this time if I am willing to schedule a play session with you. The fee for interview and negotiation sessions is $75 plus $25 an hour for my time for a total of $100 for a 1 hour interview. If I am unwilling to take you as a client, the $75 fee will be refunded. The $25 per hour to compensate for my time and that of my escort is NON-REFUNDABLE. I will gladly give you leads to find other Pro-Dommes in the area if I decide we are incompatible. If at any time you wish to schedule another negotiation session, the fee remains the same, but I will never require you to schedule an additional interview and negotiation session. $50 of the interview and negotiation session fee is reduced from your first scheduled session . This discount is only available for a first time scheduled session. If we have scheduled and confirmed a session and location, and you: a) do not show upthe offer for discount will be retracted. All fees should be paid at the beginning of any session. Money should be in a plain white envelope with the name "Ms. Elorin" on it, and will be given to my escort for the duration of the session. Requirements: Potential clients are required to arrive on time at the scheduled location. If I am kept waiting more than 15 minutes, I will expect payment of my session fee, and the session will be cancelled/rescheduled. If you have a reasonable excuse for being late, you may call to notify me on my cell phone. Arrival more than 25 minutes late will constitute a no-show. Previous no-show clients will PRE-PAY session fees with scheduling of session to reserve my time. Scheduling will not be made for repeat no-show clients. Clients should not arrive more than 15 minutes early for a session without prior arrangement. Clients will arrive clean, and prepared for play, or will make previous arrangements to arrive early and use the facilities. Clients are expected to have good hygiene and dress discretely. Any clothing changes may take place in the dungeon. Any sort of bartering of session time for service or gifts must be negotiated prior to scheduling of session time. Tributes: Negotiation Session: $75 plus $25 per hour 1 Hour Play Session: $175 90 minute Play Session: $225 2 Hour Play Session: $275 Salon "Makeover" Session: $175 per hour plus Salon Expenses Shopping Session: $100 per hour plus "spoils of shopping" 3+ hour Session: $150 per hour Extra Participants: $150 per hour, per person I do not currently have the means to do overnight, weekend long, or week long sessions. Limits: No play if you are under the influence of any drugs, alcohol, or mind altering medication (this includes over the counter "sexual enhancement aids"). Please do not arrive if you are ill - I prefer you call and reschedule. You don't get to lick, suck, or fuck me. No ass worship, ass licking, rimming, no oral sex, no penetrative sex (penetrating me). I will not jerk you off. You will not "orally worship" my body (feet and hands excluded). You will suck nothing but my toes or fingers, your own pacifier or bottle, or my strapon. No form of face sitting or breath play. I will not piss in your mouth. No infantilism, adult babies, or diaper play. Mommy and child, Auntie and niece/nephew, and all age play sessions negotiated in depth on a case by case basis. NO SCAT. No Roman showers, red showers, or brown showers. No wrestling. No requests for nudity on my part will be accepted, though I may decide to work topless or in lingerie at my discretion. No castration fantasies, gun play, or death fantasies. (The only exception being toy guns for interrogation scenes.) I do not work with anyone under 18. I do not do any kind of play having to do with being on my menstrual period. I will not masturbate, you will not get to hear or watch me orgasm. I do not work with any animals - no bestiality. Fetish Wear Wardrobe: I have a varied collection of leather and PVC clothing, and a growing collection of fetish wear. If you have a particular request for my mode of dress, please indicate it in your e-mail to mselorin@yahoo.com. If I am unable to accommodate you, I will be quite open about it. If you would like to purchase an item for me in exchange for session time, include that in e-mail negotiations before the session. I have a boot fetish and wear a variety of boots. If my black thigh high, lace up boots are requested, the client will be expected to lace me into them at the beginning of the session. If you have any additional questions, please write to mselorin@yahoo.com and I will strive to answer your e-mail as promptly as possible. 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